Spangle
10-05-2009, 10:15 PM
My Grandad passed away 5 years ago. He left a will and there was no house to leave but there was some money, which went to my Mum and her siblings. It was all straightforward, no arguements and thus I understand that there was none of the sitting at the lawyers table sorting it out which you see on films!
The sum wasn't huge - maybe £50,000 or so, I don't know and it isn't important. I would like a copy of the will to add to my tree for the sake of my children and their descendants when/if they have any. I know that Grandad made personal requests as to how his funeral was to be conducted and so on, and those are the details which matter to me.
Would I be able to obtain a copy through the government records (probate?) service? I don't want to ask my Mum as she is a bit sensitive about it all, understandably, and I fear I would upset her, and also because in our family we don't mention "the vulgar penny" so an inheritance is pretty much a taboo subject.
The sum wasn't huge - maybe £50,000 or so, I don't know and it isn't important. I would like a copy of the will to add to my tree for the sake of my children and their descendants when/if they have any. I know that Grandad made personal requests as to how his funeral was to be conducted and so on, and those are the details which matter to me.
Would I be able to obtain a copy through the government records (probate?) service? I don't want to ask my Mum as she is a bit sensitive about it all, understandably, and I fear I would upset her, and also because in our family we don't mention "the vulgar penny" so an inheritance is pretty much a taboo subject.